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Apparently I’m Supposed to Be Aging Gracefully. I Decline.
On beauty, short skirts, being desired, getting older, and the suspicious contents of “age appropriate.”
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In Cultivation
Making room for more of what makes life feel like yours.
Style, beauty, creativity, pleasure, home, ritual, aging, becoming. Not self-improvement as punishment. Cultivation as attention: noticing what makes you feel more like yourself and giving it somewhere to grow.
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