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I Have No Interest in Becoming My Best Self
For anyone who has accidentally turned her entire existence into an improvement project.
October 5, 2026
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I’m Grateful for This Life. I Want More, Actually.
On having a good life and wanting more from it anyway.
October 6, 2026
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Apparently My Car Needs Its Own Footwear
An unexpected TikTok, a pair of heels, and a small idea that has acquired a brief.
October 6, 2026
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Maybe the Door Isn’t Locked. Maybe You’ve Just Never Tried the Handle.
A short skirt, some outdated information, and a surprising number of expired rules.
October 5, 2026
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Apparently I’m Supposed to Be Aging Gracefully. I Decline.
On beauty, short skirts, being desired, getting older, and the suspicious contents of “age appropriate.”
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The Greedy List
The list before the explanations, logistics and negotiations.
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I Don’t Want to Be Needed. I Want to Be Chosen.
For the women whose competence has become part skill, part identity, part emergency hotline.
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A Highly Incomplete List of Things Nobody Mentioned About Perimenopause
Hot flashes got a publicist. The fucking ears did not.
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